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| Q: This is our First party.What can we expect?? A: As this is a off~premises party in a club closed to the public or an upscale hotel with a great room rate, everyone attending are people like yourselves interested in the lifestyle and hoping to make friends. There is the normal bar activities such as drinks, pool, darts, and dancing. What makes it special is that the people are friendly, outgoing, flirtatious with lots of dirty dancing being the rule not the exception! You can expect people to be open, you can expect to make new friends, and you can expect to meet people interested in finding a room for some playtime after the party or in the near future. Q: What should we wear? A: Dress for the most part is casual. Generally the dresses tend to be short and panties rare. It's not unusual to see a latex dress or peekaboo blouse all of which is perfectly fine. Absolutely dress to impress! Just keep in mind that coming or going we need to be properly covered. Q: Will people be pushy? Q: BYOB? A: No, the club we rent supplies us with professional bartenders and runs the business like any other night. When we host a party at a hotel...you are free to bring what you'd like to your room. Q: What ages are there? A. People ages 21 ~ 65 and up attend our parties. The age barrier does not seem to exist in our lifestyle. Personality, style and the love of life all seem to matter a great deal more to our membership. Q: Are single males allowed? A: A tough question. After much discussion with many of our couples and after a few unfortunate experiences, it was decided to limit the parties to couples and single females. Gentlemen we apologize. Unfortunately, your numbers work against you. Requests by single men asking to come outnumber the couples attending. In addition too many single males who have attended before you have made the unfortunate mistake of treating coupled females as if they were single and not part of a couple already. The difficulties of this outweigh the advantages for this sort of social event. A single gentlemen may attend when accompanied by a single female...which makes you now a couple...we appreciate your understanding. Q: Why are single females allowed in? A: The dynamics are different. Unlike single males, single females in the lifestyle are small in number. A great many couples are searching for single females to play. We feel that single females are an asset to our parties. Q: What if we see someone we know? A: That probably will happen. Hopefully all parties involved will respect the lifestyle and keep this new found information between yourselves. Hey...they are there for the same reason. Who knows maybe your next "new friends" live just down the street from you! Our parties are private so if you meet someone you know, they too are in the lifestyle. Q: Off premises means? organized by us. organized by us. Q: In afraid I may be jealous. A: At some point chances are you will be. Couples in the lifestyle tend to be very much in love and sooner or later something will not feel right. This is normal and the solution is communication. Communicate with your significant other about what is troubling you and talk it out. Respect your significant other enough to back off while you work it out. Our parties & this lifestyle are meant to enhance an already great relationship...it will not fix an unhealthy one. Communicate....Communicate....Communicate!!!!! Q: It seems like everyone is 'cliqued up' A. 50% of our parties are new faces every month. Half of the party is exactly like you..not knowing anyone. The other half used to be exactly like you, but by extending their hand and saying hi they have obviously met many new friends. Here's the secret though ~ no matter whether they have friends there or not they are at the party to make NEW friends. A smile and 'hello' is all you need to be right there with them. Q: Is there a fee? A: Yes...usually we charge $25.00 per couple...for most events....some of our larger events we may charge more. This money covers the costs of the banquet room....DJ...clean~up...Decorations...Food....etc.... If you'd like to see something added to this or any other page...please e~mail and let us know...we's be happy to consider any suggestions... |
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