| Elmira Meet and Greet Rules & Etiquette |
| Rules & Etiquette 1. Be Legal -We are not here to tell anyone how to live their Lives however if you chose to participate in illegal activities do it elsewhere. The majority of our membership are average middle class people with no interest in a brush with the law. No drugs No attendees under 21 tears of age No taking or offering money in exchange for services of any kind 2. Be polite -We strive to make Elmira Greets a place where everyone can feel comfortable,Safe and enjoy themselves. There are and will be people of every body shape...Age(over 21) and race. We all enjoy a lifestyle that is about being open and accepting. Give the same respect to all aspects of this lifestyle even if it's not similar to your own. Most of our members are in the habit of greeting each other and new people with a smile and a handshake...no matter what they are "in to"... 3. No MEANS No -If someone asks you to dance,have drinks or find a room and your not feeling it, a simple no thank you or not right now is all thats expected or needed. If someone continues to push or badger please let our hosts know. The individual will be asked to leave and will not be invited back. We are very proud to say to date this has not been necessary!!! 4. Discretion ~ We want you to recommend our parties to your friends...but the who and where has to remain private....we'll handle setting them up with an RSVP or adding them to yours...We do not ever give out peoples personal information so please do not ask. 5. When entering and leaving the premises please be properly attired. 6. Photography...While we do not exactly ban cameras please be sure to request permission before taking anyone's picture. This includes people who may be in the background. 7. Due to the social nature of the parties...It is not unusual to see some light nudity or be approached by individuals interested in You and your significant other. If such activities may offend you our parties might not be right for you. 8.While it is a private party invite only..legally it is still considered a public place. Please keep all activities legal. This would include activities of a sexual nature. 9. We do not allow single men to attend our parties Unless accompanied by a female date....which would then make you a "couple".....sorry guys...this isn't likely to change anytime soon... We are very open~minded as host couples and understand that you've all got your own agendas...Please, do not be the person(s) that forces us to enforce these rules. Depending on the situation...it could mean that you won't be allowed to attend our parties...no one wants that! NOW THAT THAT'S OUT OF THE WAY.......;) |

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